10 Major Blunders By Men When Approaching Women
Oct 21st, 2008 by Stylelife Academy
1. Do not hesitate to go up and talk to her by waiting for that perfect moment when she is alone. Even if she is interested in you if you haven’t won her friends over they will pull her away from you.
2. Don’t look at her for more than 3 seconds before you approach. Wait any longer than this, and you’ll either creep her out or talk yourself out of meeting her.
3. Don’t be apprehensive to approach her because she is surrounded by a group with some men in it. Usually, after you meet everyone you’ll learn that these guys are family, friends, or co-workers.
4. Never start conversing with a woman with an apology. Sayings such as “Excuse me ” “Pardon me ” and “I’m sorry, but” make you seem like you are begging for her attention.
5. Don’t hit on her or give her a generic compliment. Instead, start a conversation with an entertaining anecdote or question, such as asking the group to suggest names for a three-legged cat or a store that sells 70’s memorabilia. It may sound corny, but everyone loves to give their opinion.
6. Never, ever buy her a drink. You shouldn’t have to pay for her attention.
7. Under no circumstances should you touch or grab her immediately. If she touches you, retort, while smiling, “Watch it, hands off the goods.”
8. Don’t lean in or hover. Stand up as straight as possible, and if it’s too noisy and she can’t hear you, then raise your voice.
9. Avoid asking what her name is, what she does for work, or where she’s from. She’s sick of talking about the same boring stuff with all the guys that approach her.
10. Don’t focus all your attention on her when she’s with other people. If you win her friends over, you’ll win her.
