5 Signs That Indicate Your Lover Might Be Cheating On You
May 1st, 2008 by Johnny White
The thoughts of someone you love cheating on you is very painful. But it is also something that does happen each and every day. This means if you suspect that your lover may be cheating on you then your going to have to do something about it.
One of the better ways to start your investigation is by looking for the signs that your lover is cheating on you. There will be signs if you look hard enough. In this article were going to go over some of the signs that your lover might accidentally give off.
Sign #1 A New Cell Phone: Cell phones make it really easy to communicate for a cheating lover. They have their own phone that only they have access to. In many cases a cheating lover may buy a new phone to cover up their tracks. You may find that they try to hide that phone so that you can’t see who they have been talking to.
Sign #2 Long Working Hours: If your lover always worked long hours then this one isn’t so obvious. For many it is a big sign of a problem. One thing to look for is a raise or a promotion at work. If that is the case then there may be a legitimate reason for them working longer hours. But if their pay isn’t increasing then they may be making it all up. You might have to poke and pry by asking them questions about their work. See how they respond to those questions.
Sign #3 Change In Sex Drive: If there is a sudden change in your spouses sex drive then you probably have a problem. The only exception of this is if they are ill. Even if they aren’t cheating yet there is a good chance your lover will at some point if they are not satisfied in this area.
Sign #4: Install Spy Cams: You may want to consider installing a spy camera in certain locations. For example, would you be able to hook one up in your lovers car? Can you get to their office and install one? Could you plan a trip a way from home and install a spy camera in your home? These are all options that you can consider.
Sign #5 Showers At Unusual Times: Has your lover started to shower at times that are not normal? When your lover comes home from work do they shower and change their clothes before they do anything else? Cheating lovers will always want to get rid of any smells that may tell you that they have been with another man or woman.
Now you know some of the signs, but what are you going to do? With these signs you can investigate things a little bit further. Once you have enough evidence you can then accuse your lover of cheating.
