7 Effective Ways To Chat up A Girl
Sep 11th, 2008 by Benjamin Wise
1. Ask an opinion. A good way to begin a conversation with a girl you would like to talk to is to ask her opinion about something. Women like to know that someone cares about what they think and that their opinion matters. This is a great way to start a conversation.
2. Seek their assistance with something. Women like to feel wanted and needed, so if you ask for their help and if the request is not too complicated then you will find that they will eagerly want to help you. The key of course is to keep it simple.
3. Compliments when appropiate are powerful. When you are chatting up a girl and you hardly know her don’t over do it with the compliments becasue they will have no merit. Sure you can make small compliments about her appearance but just don’t lay it on thick. That can be scary. If she is wearing nice shoes ask her where she got them so as to continue conversation.
4. Offer her a drink. This is an old tactic but it can be effective nonetheless. By the way it does not have to be alcohol; it can be a coffee at a cafe. Basically anywhere that serves drinks.
5. Ask her to dance. Most public places have music playing over speakers. If a good song comes on then ask her to dance. It might sound crazy, silly, or even be a little romantic, but she just might. However, if she doesn’t dance with you then she may stick around to talk.
6. Simply say hello that will work just fine even if you are having difficulty coming up with something to say, just introduce yourself. Not all of us can be that creative when it comes to chatting up girls, but a simple “hello” could get things going.
7. Don’t get your underwear in a twist, do not take yourself too seriously, you know we all have fears and it is through our common humanity that we can strike up a relationship. Enjoy, and relax.
Chatting up a girl is not as hard as some guys make it out to be. If you want to talk to a girl then be natural and be yourself.
