Crazy For Canadians: Online Dating In Canada
Nov 13th, 2008 by Frank Sinsky
Over the past ten years, there have been literally of hundreds of new online dating sites. People have in general become comfortable with the idea of getting to know people based on an online profile and subsequent instant messages and emails. Many online daters have searched the entire world wide web for their soul mate, without ever looking in their own back yard. That’s why you should consider looking at Canadian dating sites. Most major Canadian cities are just a quick direct flight away, no further than an American cross-country trip. Better yet, the Canadian culture is very compatible with American culture while still offering unique advantages.
Let’s start with the basics. First, any internet search engine can be used to find online dating services in Canada. Just type those keywords into your browser window. Once you’ve found a site that you think may be right for you, sign up, and you’re on your way towards the adventure of a lifetime! Even if you don’t find your soul mate, you will definitely make some new friends and aquaintances. And how unique to have a friend from another country!
Often, people involved in online dating will communicate via web cam. Think of this as the online equivalent of meeting for coffee on your lunch break. Present yourself attractively. Dress as you would for a date and groom your hair and face. Other than that, just let the conversation flow naturally. Talk about common interests, recent news items, and what you do for fun. Smile and look into the camera, rather than your laptop screen. In no time it will feel almost as natural as sitting right next to someone.
Another question or concern about online dating may be: “what should I do on my virtual date.” Let’s think about the most common choices for a face-to-face date. There are movies to watch, dinner’s to eat, drinks to share, and concerts to attend. I propose that all of these same activities can occur online! It may sound silly, but the two of you can decide upon a meal that you would like to prepare, share the same recipe, set a time, and be at your computer and enjoy your feast together. If you just want to get together and have a few drinks, decide upon a nice vintage of wine or some mixed drinks.
Before each date, you might want to consider doing a little bit of research. If you want to prove that you are interested, you could browse the online home page of a Canadian newspaper. Learn a little bit about Canadian arts, politics, and culture. This will give you a base of shared knowledge with your date and make you less nervous. If you’re less nervous, the date will go much better. You will be able to laugh and really get to know each other.
Online dating, especially long-distance online dating, takes a little bit of extra planning. Try to schedule times for talks or dates in advance. Take notice of your date’s time zone; Canada has different time zones than the United States. With that in mind, coordinate a time to watch an old cowboy movie or 1980’s kung fu movie together. If you are watching at the same time, you can easily share reactions and feel close.
Music is known as the universal language. Even though Canadians generally speak English, it doesn’t hurt to speak to them with music too. Share music that you like with your date. Often, the music you like can show a lot about your personal history and your character. Of course, music can also be very romantic! Make a play list for your date and he or she can listen to it when you are not around.
Finally, all of this online dating hopefully leads to you and your date falling for each other. At that point, you will want to try to meet in person if you can afford it and find a time to arrange it. The physical affection that the two of you share will be all that much better for already knowing each other so well. Who knows, your online partner might even become your real-life spouse. Well, what are you waiting for? Try a date with someone online in Canada, and see what online dating can do for you.
