Do You Know These Signs of a Cheating Boyfriend?
Jul 30th, 2008 by Alicia Adams
There are times in a person’s life when they gain knowledge of something they wish they hadn’t. Being the victim of a cheating boyfriend is one of those times.
In today’s day and age family values are at an all time low, with the average relationship standing only a fifty percent chance of surviving infidelity. The numbers are staggering!
Fifty percent does seem high, and when I saw it I had the same reaction you’re probably having right nowdisbelief. I then went on to research that there are only a small minority of people who actually do something about it.
Okay, you’re doing research on this topic so you’re already ahead of the game. This means you are among the small group of women who have the courage and dignity to do something about your situation. You’ve seen the signs of a cheating boyfriend and you decided to do something about it. This means that you are willing to take action and initiative, the power to take your life into your own hands and be happy for once.
Like military snipers will tell you; sometimes the hardest targets to see are right in front of you. The same holds true for a woman in our situation. We know it’s there we just can’t see it. Eventually, we lose sight and then everything just blends in and gets out of focus.
We often tend to worry about things for long periods of time waiting to take action. We often don’t know what we’re waiting for. We wait so long that each day that passes only increases the anxiety and the fear of the unknown.
GET A GRIP! This is your life. You call the shots. (At least you probably used to.) Regain control and take back your confidence. Here are the some of the most prevalent signs of a cheating boyfriend, and how to remedy this situation once and for all.
- Coming home later than usual on a more regular basis. Even an hour or two later every night should be enough to make you suspicious. This is a very obvious signs of a cheating boyfriend.
- Your Boyfriend lacks that raging libido that once was on the verge of excessive.
- Does he have a history of cheating? You thought he would change for you didn’t you? 99% chance, he never will change and will always be a cheater.
- Is eye contact becoming a scarcity? The guilt can play tricks on a guys mind, enough so where he acts over confident, but yet can’t seem to look you in the eye.
- You have short brown hair, but you keep finding long blond hair on your boyfriends shirt, car, pantsetc.
- Check receipts! Find any receipts for flowers or jewelry but never received the benefit of his credit card dept. Look for recent purchase on receipts or even on-line computer statements.
- Do you find him using the computer more often than before? Does he have a sudden interest in MySpace, but yet won’t let you see his profile or his page. Does he smile a lot when on the computer then switch pages suddenly when you walk in the room?
- This is an obvious one, the easiest one to catch, but the most overlooked. It’s simple, if he won’t let you see his phone or gets nervous when you look at ityou know it’s time to do some investigating.
- Do you find inconsistency in his stories and his friend’s stories. Men aren’t the best at communicating to begin with, try getting them to tell the same lie in perfect unison
- Do you feel like your doing all the work in the relationship without any effort from your significant other. If he shows this sign of a cheating boyfriend, even if he’s not cheatingget rid of him! You deserve better.
Remember, we still have to build a solid case before we make any attempt at questioning your suspected cheating boyfriend. This will only hurt our chances of gathering concrete evidence! As women, we often think we have plenty of evidence, yet since we cannot predict how our suspected boyfriend will answer, we must be prepared to answer his every excuse with a fact. Remember, he can’t deny anything, once you have solid proof!
