How To Make Your Spouse Stay !
Bringing back a Partner is a lot easier to do when you figure out why people leave and why people stay in relationships.
1. You both have needs that need to be fulfilled.
We all have highly emotional needs and we usually seek a person to be in our life that will fulfill those emotional needs. This person makes you feel good when you are around them. You find that when you are around them you can experience new things. It all seems new because you haven’t shared these experiences with this person before. Even something as quaint as a alfresco meal will take on a new meaning.
Someone new who enters our world brings new thoughts that they share with you. You share your thoughts with the new person and wha la you have the makings for growth for both of you.
Remember how good you feel when you meet to someone new and fill a need that they have. For that matter whether it is a new person in your life or someone you have known for twenty years. It makes you feel powerful or perhaps I should say you feel empowered.You are helping someone blossom. We all crave to be appreciated and needed. Keep in mind that just like you are feeling this feeling of empowerment, your wife or mate needs to experience this same feeling. They need to know that they are giving you something that you need. Looking deeper this makes your Spouse feel empowered, as well as, appreciated.
When this feeling is absent then this is when a Girl friend may leave. There will always be someone else who will give your Companion this feeling of empowerment. Someone is always waiting in the woods waiting on you to mess up.
We all develop bad habits over time. If you have, it may be time to change some of your bad habits, especially, if you want to save your relationship.
2. Everybody enjoys the feeling of being special. Feeling worthwhile to someone.
If you want to save your relationship and keep your partner you have to remind your partner just how much you love and respect for them. Tell them this during those just because moments. Not when you hope to benefit from something. Never forget that what you won’t do for love someone else is always willing to do. Especially make your mate feel special. Remember how you behaved on your first date. Well do it again, do it everyday. You won’t have to worry about your partner craving.
3.Do you really know what your wife wants?
Believe it or not you and your Spouse probably have a lot in common. So if you understand yourself better it will help you connect to your companion even easier. One thing you have in common is the desire to grow. If you want to save your relationship, you need to allow it to grow to new horizons. When we are able to sprout and develop as a human being in a relationship then we want to stay in the relationship for as long as we can. It would be a rare situation that would cause a person who feels full filled in a relationship to leave his or her relationship.
Don’t be socially stagnant. Take a class, or travel to new places. Feed your brain fresh ideas and thoughts. You can share these with your mate or experience them together.Have fun and stay in date mode. Don’t be intimidated by fear and end up smothering your mate. There are things that they may want to do that you have no interest. Let them experience these things and share there growth with you.
4. How are you doing in your relationship? What grade would you get?
If graded on your relationship, how would you do? Everybody wants an A. We all want to feel like we are doing well in our relationship. This means we want to feel like we can keep our companion happy without sacrificing our soul. To encourage your Girl friend to stay in the relationship or save your relationship make sure you give them the care and understanding they deserve. Everyday is test day.
5. People seek to have a meaningful life.
What is your reason to live? Is it something you do at work? Does it make you feel whole? This is how most people feel, something makes them feel good. It gives them a reason to live. This is something outside of your relationship. However, be sure not to impede on what your companion feels is meaningful for him or her. If they get satisfaction being a truck driver don’t try to convert them into an accountant, just because that’s what you like.What you can do is to offer your support, care and understanding.
