How Not To Pickup Women - If You Keep Making These Mistakes You Will Fail
Aug 18th, 2009 by David Lynn
Do you want to know how to pickup women? If you do than you would probably want to know how NOT to pickup women as well. We will be going over why you do not want to put her on a pedestal, why you don’t want to appear over excited to meet her, and why bragging is a recipe for failure. After you read this you will have some powerful tips that will help you along the way.
Take Her Off The Pedestal
It seems like every time a regular guy meets a beautiful woman he has the need to treat her like a queen. This is something you don’t want to do. For all you know she may have public belching contests every Tuesday night. Never put a woman on a pedestal. She isn’t a goddess, just a mere mortal like us.
It’s not good to pedestal because you end up looking like her new puppy who follows her everywhere instead of the man who is supposed to lead, not follow. Women want men who will take charge with confidence. Pedestaling will lower your social value so stop doing it. Now that we have this covered you need to know the next point.
Quit Being Excited To Meet Her
Women don’t want to meet a guy who gets all excited and possibly obnoxious upon the first few seconds of initiating contact. This is obviously a bad thing as you may come off as being desperate or having no experience at all with women.
Just remember to be cool and laid back, think fun and not outcome. Women crave men who seem in control of their lives and who show that they are the prize instead of the other way around. We are just about finished, but not quite.
Don’t Brag
The ladies definitely dislike men who feel the need to brag about everything they have done since the day they were born. This makes you look insecure because you are coming off like somebody who has to impress her. If you feel like you have to brag, mix it in with some storytelling. This way you can add some interesting elements to the mix and that can take the focus off of you.
And there you have it a few very simple ways how not to pickup women. You have just learned why you should not pedestal, why you don’t want to appear eager, and why bragging isn’t a good thing at all. Now that you know these things go out there and pickup women the proper way.
