How to Approach Women with No Fear
Dec 17th, 2008 by Stylelife Academy
Most men have felt approach anxiety while socializing. For most guys it comes on when considering to approach a woman they find attractive. Approach anxiety can be so overwhelming that it keeps you from ever talking to women.
There is a method for overcoming this social paralysis. For many approach anxiety begins as an internal negative dialouge. This mental loop can be countered with an opposing positive dialouge.
Question: “Why did I go out this evening?”
Answer: “In order to meet a woman.”
Question: “How will I be able to meet women?”
Answer: “I must approach them.”
Question: “If I don’t even attempt to approach any women how will I feel?”
Answer: “I’ll feel terrible and I will see tonight as worthless and awkward.”
Question: “For how long will I then think about this negative experience?
Answer: “I will think about it until I am able to go out again and I will feel horrible about it.”
Question: “Do I want to feel horrible until I go out again or do I want to feel like a rock-star right now?”
Answer: “I want to feel like a rock-star, I’m going to do this!”
Now, you must make all of your efforts worthwhile, so you must act! Use the powerful negative feelings of your approach anxiety to motivate you to meet women. Make your fear into your power.
