How to Attract Girls - For Guys
Jan 13th, 2009 by Chaszey Sandhriel
A shy guy has a lot to learn about women and how to attract girls. When guys think of the girls they would love to date, they don’t think of models and movie stars right away. Instead, they instantly invoke images of their yoga teachers, their favorite coffee shop barista, and the sassy executive secretary across the street. These are women that these guys meet daily, and here’s a collection of tips on how to attract girls you meet on a daily basis.
1. Make her laugh. Humor, when used in flirting and seduction, will lead to phenomenal results. Women love to joke around and keep things light and bubbly. For young or mature women, there’s nothing more relaxing than devoting a few minutes to teasing and being teased. Crack a joke or two while you’re watching her mix your drink then do it all over again the next day. This way, she will look forward to your daily jibes and will look forward to what you’re going to say next.
Learning how to attract girls using humor is something that anyone can do. The key is to adopt a proper mindset when dishing out jokes. Be spontaneous and aim to make her relax and enjoy herself. A joke that’s obviously scripted will turn her off. When you kid around with a girl, you’re not attempting to pick her up (yet), you’re simply making her smile.
2. Gaze at her, don’t just look. There’s a difference and you know it. Finding out how to attract girls means learning how to appeal to her vanity. She’s more likely to grin back if she can feel your interest. Let your body language and dazzling smile convey your objectives of dating her in the near future. The best way to open a conversation with her is to follow up your gaze with a confident “hello”. This way, she will know that you’re looking at her and smiling at her, not someone else.
3. Keep your hands relaxed and ready for a handshake - Women are continuously reading people, and can be more subtle than men when it comes to sensing vibrations from others. She cannot read your mind, but she can feel the vibe you are giving off. Don’t keep your hands tucked inside your pocket, and use gestures to illustrate something. Studying how to attract girls could mean matching their intuition.
4. Take charge of the next step. You’ve introduced yourself to her and she knows you want to get to know her more. So, what’s next? It’s up to you to suggest something else to do, so take charge. Ask her if she drinks coffee, or if she’s into video games (a lot of hot girls are into video games), and invite her over. Don’t send her off without getting her number or making plans for the next minute, the next hour or the next weekend. If she blows you off this time, don’t fret. Graciously accept her decision and give her your number. Your quiet confidence will tell her that you are ok with a blow off, and that you’re probably a hot item that she should not pass up.
