How to Manage Your Time when Meeting women - Part 2
Jul 18th, 2008 by Vin DiCarlo
Young men are taught that their urges is crude and silly, and that it is just a favor that women ALLOWS them to mate with them.
“Doofus dad” syndrome is another societal factor that I’m going on. In almost every TV commercial and sitcom, the “dad” or “boyfriend” or “husband” is a dopey, incompetent goof, and the mom/wife/girlfriend/daughter has to use her superior intelligence to fix the situation.
This will bring to the idea that the time of the women is more valuable than men because of the perception that women are “better.”
You will feel required to give a lot of your time to a woman if your time is not so valuable.
But here’s the thing - if you are giving a girl too much time, you will end up not present for most of that time. You will be distracted, resentful, you will give her your “half-assed” attention.
I just realize this after analyzing lots of dates I went on women.
After a while I started giving women smaller amounts of my time, but my FULL ATTENTION.
Aside from making our time better, this creates a VAST ATTRACTION because I left women craving more.
Now my women can’t get enough of me - in fact, I don’t GIVE THEM “enough.”
You see, “enough” would mean, “overexposure” to me, and women can’t be pulled to what they already have.
I don’t recommend playing games with girls and you pretend to be busy or whatever. In reality, the proper way to manage your time is by being HONEST.
No need of games, just be real with the girl - and don’t spend more time that you want.
Enjoy whatever free time you have with women but still with focus on your personal goals. Be the man on the go.
Now it requires that in a short span of time that you can be able to meet a lot of women, which I’ll have to take up in another newsletter.
It’s a sad thing to see that men waste their lives chasing and “putting up with” women, and then they are buried in their coffin ALONE.
You should think that women aren’t property that you can keep or somehow bring with you when you die.
You can’t “keep” a woman by investing all your time with her.
One more thing here - if you start being honest with the amount of time you are willing give to a woman, you may feel GUILTY.
Either she will try to make you feel guilty, or you will feel it on your own. This is ok, it just means you have a weak focus.
If you are following your true ways, it will usually from the social norm.
If you are in the habit of adopting the values that others try to impose onto you, you will probably experience some tension, guilt, discomfort, even loneliness at first.
That is why I discover and develop the Attraction Code. You can learn about self-control, finding true path, and letting the real ‘you’ deep within.
And no, we don’t intend to impose our goals to you. I think you are capable enough to handle it to yourself, given the proper guidance.
Vin
