How To Quickly Discover If Your Spouse Is Cheating On You
Oct 28th, 2008 by Doug Timlin
If you are worried that your spouse, girlfriend or boyfriend might be cheating on you, there’s a quick and easy to find out. You owe it to yourself to find out the truth about your relationship and whether or not your partner is being faithful.
There’s an easy way to get the answers you need and find out if your spouse is being faithful. This technique has three steps - let’s take a look at each one.
The First Step
The first step does require you to be touch on the “sneaky” side. It’s easy to do though.
You will need to get a hold of your spouse’s cell phone for about 15-20 minutes. When you do this, you want to choose a time where you don’t run the risk of getting caught. You don’t want your partner walking in on you while you are looking at their phone.
Timing is crucial here since you don’t want your spouse to know what you are doing. Wait for a good time - maybe they just jumped in the shower or have gone out to the gym or store but left their phone at home.
When you get a hold of their phone, grab a pen and paper and write down every phone number that shows up in their call history. You will need to look at both the “incoming” and “outgoing” call lists.
As you are doing this you can leave off the phone number that you recognize. Just be sure to write down any phone number that you haven’t seen before.
After you have finished doing this, discretely put the cell phone back in the same place you found it and move on to the second step.
Step Number Two
Now that you have your list of phone numbers, it’s time to figure out who your spouse has been chatting with.
It is possible to find out complete on someone by having only their phone number. This is all you need to get their full name, address and background information.
There are specialized companies that pay money to have access to all phone records (including unlisted and cell phone numbers) and build databases of these records. They then allow law enforcement, detective agencies and the general public to search through them.
These companies will charge a small fee to run a search, but it isn’t expensive. There’s a link at the bottom of this article where you can run a free sample search to see how it works. This type of search is known as a “reverse phone lookup”.
All you do is enter the phone number and the name of the owner is instantly displayed on your computer screen. You will also see their address and location details along with other background information.
You want to find a company that charges a flat rate for unlimited searches in their database. There are usually going to be quite a few numbers on the list you just made so this way you won’t pay for each search you run.
Go through your list and do a reverse phone lookup for each phone number. Write down the details you find for each one as you do this.
When you are finished going through your list, move on to the next step.
The Last Step
Your list is now complete - it’s time to look at what your results.
Since you know have a list of exactly who your spouse has been chatting with on the phone, this makes it easy to see if anything out of the ordinary is going on.
Usually people will have a name or two in mind of who their spouse might be cheating with. If you are in that boat, does that name show up on your list?
And of the other names on the list, are there any that look suspicious?
This is the step where it will become obvious to you if your partner is being unfaithful to you.
If you think there is a chance that your spouse is cheating on you, make sure you do what it takes to find out. This method is an easy way to get some quick answers about whether or not you are being treated with the respect that you deserve.
