I Broke up with Her, Now I Want my Girlfriend Back
Jun 24th, 2009 by Ricardo d Argence
Dumped your girlfriend? Now you want her back. You will need to act quickly. But you dont want to make the same mistakes that most guys do when they are trying desperately to get their ex-girlfriends back.
If you want to get her back then I bet you’ve been sending her expensive gifts, trying desperately to get her attention and prove something to her about how you feel.
Chances are none of that has worked, because to be honest it’s pretty old hat and your girlfriend wants to see something more honest and much more innovative from you.
Its likely you will need to jump some hoops before your dumped ex-girlfriend will consider taking you back. Even if she is desperate to have you back. You did dump her and its going to be difficult to get over how she feels about that.
There is no question or doubt, you may seriously have hurt her pride and feelings. And she will act accordingly. It will depend on how badly you want her back which will determine how prepared you will be to accept the consequences.
You will need to explain truthfully the reasons for your actions. Its best you take some time to conclude your reason for dumping her. Sit down with her and explain honestly your reasons for your actions.
An apology will definitely be in order along with a promise that this will not occur again, ever. If you truly want her back this should be done with sincerity.
You may have panicked as the relations deepened and became more serious, catching you off guard. This is common among some guys. They suddenly feel smothered and overwhelmed and taken totally unaware. Instead of taking the time to sit down and talk with their girlfriends, they panic and break off the relationship.
Before you know it, you have a dumped girlfriend and you’re living with regret. So perhaps this is the situation that you have to explain to your ex girlfriend. If it is, again, be honest.
What you must guard against in a situation where you were clearly in the wrong and you over reacted, is that you don’t become her punching bag. Don’t allow her to use you as an emotional vessel into which she pours out all her frustrations and anger just because she can. So doormat out, understanding and apologetic guy in!
The chance that both of you still have feelings for one another is good and you will get her back. Even after dumping her. It is very important that you make clear that you do want to try again with her. Not simply reacting to guilt feelings about the way you have treated her.
