I Have Been a Jerk, How Can I Win My Girlfriend Back?
Jun 23rd, 2009 by Ricardo d Argence
A few situations in life are a huge struggle and one of them is how to successfully get girl back and keep her after you’ve messed up big time!
Of course only you know what it is you did wrong in order to make her leave you. Perhaps you cheated on her, or perhaps you never paid enough attention to her? However, no matter what you did, if you’re hoping to get her back, then you’ll need to whip yourself into order.
What I’m about to suggest will no doubt prove to be difficult for you to do, considering that it’s counter- initiative. Essentially, you could need to leave her alone and allow her to have her space. If you do this you may well find that she will realize just how much she misses you, and if she does, she will more than likely agree to give you another chance.
Whenever you do, don’t brush this possibility to the side irrespective of whether or not it appears that all is lost at present. If it works, it works and if it doesn’t work, then it doesn’t.
However, if what you need to get girl back is a much more direct and hands on approach then again, take some time out and use that time to get your head straight. By default, you give her some time to think also and put the whole thing into much needed perspective.
During this time out, you may want to spend time with friends or family. Whatever you do, you definitely don’t want to be pestering her by sending her e-mails and text messages. Neither should you “accidentally” bump into in places where you know she’s likely to show up. Rather than work in your favor, these tactics will more than likely drive her further away.
If you neglected her, missed her birthday, hardly ever took her out, then you need to seriously look at that behavior. No girl worth her salt is going to put up with such behavior.
A girl wants and needs, to be taken out and made a fuss of. She needs to know that you want to be with her for more than the obvious. If you fail to show her that, then she will walk and find a guy who can show her that.
Maybe you were simply spending a lot of time with your mates and as such, you don’t really believe that you were doing anything wrong. Perhaps you were all perhaps you weren’t, but the truth is; that’s not the way one treats a lady if she’s important to you. If you were guilty of this but you’d still like to win back your girl, then I’m not being funny, but you need to get yourself sorted out.
Essentially, in order to win back your girl, you need to behave in such a way so as to show her that you are capable of understanding her needs and desires. Whatever you do, don’t waste her time or your own by trying to win her back under false pretenses. Even if you succeed, it won’t last for long, and the next time she leaves, she’ll probably be gone for ever.
