Keep Love Alive With a 10 Second Kiss
Oct 2nd, 2008 by Calvin Sorren
When a couple stands at the altar and vows to love each other, “Till death do us part,” they assume they will be intimately connected forever. The kiss at the end of the ceremony symbolizes that connection. It is the most intimate connection possible between two people, even more intimate than sexual intercourse. A prostitute will tell you that they can have sex with her customers, but cannot kiss them.
The kiss is the core of a relationship - a barometer of how things are going. Most couples aren’t even aware when their relationship begins to change. What was once a passionate relationship has become a friendship over time. One day they awake to the realization, “We’re roommates and no longer lovers.” So, keep reading! You can keep your friend and get your lover back too.
A 10 second kiss says “I am in love with you,” where a peck on the cheek simply says “I love you.” A lot of women have confessed that they have feelings of loneliness and emptiness just minutes after their spouse has come home. If this describes you, here is a foolproof way to get rid of this problem.
The 10 second kiss homework assignment has the quickest and most noticed effect. It will set the tone for the rest of the day, when given in the morning. Likewise, in the evening it will set the mood for the rest of the night. Try this: Grab your spouse tonight and give them a 10 second kiss. If they respond by saying “What’s gotten into you?” just tell them, “From now on we are not going to be roommates anymore. We are going back to being lovers!”
Then tell your mate that you would like to try an experiment. For the next week every time you haven’t seen each other for an extended period of time (usually the work day), you are to give each other a ten-second kiss. Tell him it doesn’t matter how awful his or your day has been. You are to greet each other with a ten-second kiss. You can bring out a stopwatch or use the microwave timer to get him accustomed to the length of this kiss. Have some fun with this.
You probably think 10 seconds is not long, but it is! Most married couples greet each other with speaking, such as “Hi, I’m home” or “Anyone here?” The isolated feeling are there because there is no physical response. Isolated feeling will be replaced with closeness and warm feelings when you start relating to each other in this way. Once you have connected with the kiss, you can continue with your normal tasks, such as dinner, kids, etc… You will feel connected to each other now.
