People NOT to date
Jan 13th, 2009 by Ermine James
Sure we might want to date someone who is unlike us, maybe for a challenge, or novelty factor, but there are simply types of person we must avoid dating at all cost.
Married people. This should be obvious enough. A married person is bad news. If you are married and want to start an affair, you are risking losing not only your marriage, kids, house and financial stability just for a single day or two a week. If you’re single, there is the fact that the person would be highly unlikely to leave their spouses for you. You’re dating, but you are for the most part still single. That and the reality that all the lies and deceit you have to come up with just for the two of you to have some time together are simply not worth giving even the slightest consideration.
Serial daters. This type of people is difficult to identify, as they use all the charisma and wit at their disposal to make you melt in your toes. They say what you want to hear, and before you knew it, you’ve already fallen to their charms. Be careful in falling for this type, as you might be another one of their trophies, good enough to be shown off to their friends for a while but dump you in the end for someone new.
Liars. While everyone tells a lie to try and impress someone, sometimes these innocent white lies turn to something ugly once found out, especially if you’ve fallen for that person. Be suspicious of any outlandish claims. Try to find out if there’s any truth in what you’ve been told.
Flirts. They are fun to be with, and you’ll never be bored in their company. But the fact that they simply cannot help but drawing all the attention to themselves every time you go out can leave you left out as other people flock around them. You must be very secure to date this type.
Rebound person. You will perceive if you’re just being used as a rebound when the person you are dating keeps mentioning past love or referring to an ex. If this is the case, gently let them down and walk away. It’s evident that they aren’t quite over their previous affair yet, and not quite ready to start a new relationship.
If you do find yourself dating one of these types, try to back out at once. You could tell them you had a great time, but don’t think you’re ideally matched. It’s better to leave early on than subject yourself to much pain.
