Pick Up Artist Secrets: Attracting a “10
Jul 17th, 2008 by Vin DiCarlo
If you are interested in meeting, attracting and keeping a “10″, then you should read this letter.
But first off, let go waaay back…
Back in high school, I had a girl classmate that was so perfect.
That girl was so beautiful, cool and smart that it was hard to look at her (and yet I can’t take my eyes off away from her)…
She was friendly to everyone and was one of the popular kids in school.
Occasionally we talked and as I look back I realize that we were flirting (I was so stupid to realize at that time).
I was really wanted to ask her to senior prom… but at the last minute I chickened out.
It was a few years later that I realized that the girl had a crushed on me all the senior year.
I have talked to lot of men and this seems a common experience to them. they missed an opportunity to meet this ONE SPECIAL WOMAN who you crushed on from afar, or the girl had broke their heart…
Ah, the unreachable “10,” a perfect woman that every men dream but seems hard to attain.
I have so many things to say about this so-called “10’s.” In one word they are women of another “breed,” but at the same time, what makes them so is in the way they think.
To help you resolve this conundrum, and maybe help you find that “perfect girl” for yourself, you need to understand you own fascination with female perfection, and understand the reality behind extremely beautiful women.
First of all, “10″ is just a myth. No human being can be considered as perfect. You CANNOT say that a woman who looks prettier than the women is more “valuable”.
A woman that turns you on and have a great chemistry with you is the only true “10″ and is the one that’s perfect for you.
Subsequently, there are a lot of 10’s in the world, you just need to have the ability to meet a bunch of women, and make an options for yourself.
Treating a woman differently than other women just because she is prettier is a recipe for failure.
Why?
Because a lot of guys do that.
She knows what you’re about and sees you as shallow.
But there certainly a type of women that seems to have an another “level” beauty than the rest. These women get treated much differently than other women.
This is important to understand so that you know how to deal with these kinds of women.
Like I said, you shouldn’t treat them “differently.”
Let me explain it.
You shouldn’t treat them BETTER than other women. But there are a couple things you need to know.
First of all, a woman is turn off for those men that chases her only for the looks alone.
A woman wants to be appreciated for her personality above anything else.
Now for your own sake I’m going to give you a heads up.
There are two types of “10’s.”
Low self-esteem and high self-esteem.
Low self esteem 10’s are pretty common. They are used to being wanted for their looks, but they know that they didn’t EARN that attention, so they have a guilt complex.
In fact, they are in complete dumbasses or most probably their lives have been coasted.
It may sounds not good but I call it like it is.
These type of women will respond to jerk-behavior. Taking away their validation will make them flip out and do anything to get it back.
Anything.
(As a side, these girls usually suck in bed and are total head cases when you get involved with them.)
On the other hand, the high self-esteem 10’s women have had a taste of elite- they know early from the start that high levels of society were attainable to them, and they work hard to be successful, intelligent, and make the most of their lives.
These women know that they are just a little closer to a great life than everyone else, and so they are motivated to put in the extra effort.
Usually these women have good attitudes, are intelligent, have a direction in life and have lots of interests beyond being clubbing.
In fact, the most beautiful women I’ve dated didn’t even go to the club. They like to spend their evenings reading, being with their families, or having a nice dinner with friends (or studying if they were in college).
One of the interesting thing about this types of women are that they are single for long periods of time while in-between boyfriends. Why?
It is because they have high standards for themselves, and this makes most men either too intimidated to ask them out, or act too needy and pathetic around them, it’s rare that they meet another man who is on their level.
But here’s the good thing. If you understand The Attraction Code you will know that these women are the easiest to attract.
The Attraction Code is about being the best man you can be, being a “male 10.”
You’ll notice an interesting thing when you start to embody the Attraction Code.
There is an Auto-Rejection Mechanism that I call where some women will try to protect themselves from being rejected by you, by rejecting YOU first. This is where you’ll get odd responses from less attractive women - they will occasionally be rude to you because they know they’re not on your level.
But you’ll be amazed to see the responds of the most beautiful and attractive women that warm right up to you as soon as you approach them - whether on the street or in the bar - because they can see that you are on their “level.”
The girl will thinks “finally, a guy who can hang with me; he’s confident and treats me like a real person. And he’s the only guy who’s actually tried to talk to me today, instead of whistling from his car.”
The Attraction Code is intended for these kinds of women. And you’ll also enjoy a lot of “adventures” with all kinds of women, but this is about having the option of dating the hottest, highest quality women.
There are lot of 10’s out there waiting for you.
Don’t waste you’re time waiting for nothing.
Vin
