Seducing Women: What Every Guy Should Know
Jan 13th, 2009 by Chaszey Sandhriel
How does a man learn about seducing women? Effective seduction can be extremely stressful if a guy tries too hard or he doesn’t try at all. A guy gets rejected when he tries too hard, and he won’t get any dates if he doesn’t try at all. So what’s a regular guy do to start seducing women?
Start with affection. When you feel affection for a girl, show it. Be emotionally available to her and don’t hold back. Thinking about romancing a girl is the most natural form of seduction because it will show in your actions.
Let your touch linger. Any girl who feels comfortable with you, will let you share hugs and hold hands with her. Try to let your touch linger an additional few seconds more before you let go. These subtle touches will keep her curious and soon, she’ll follow your lead. Physical closeness encourages and promotes sexual tension, the good kind.
Avoid sending mixed signals. Stay consistent with your approach. Smile every time when you look at her. Women, just like men, don’t like getting rejected and if your target isn’t sure about how you truly feel, she won’t take risks.
Be on the lookout for telltale signs of seduction from her. She could be trying to seduce you but you are too wrapped up trying to learn about seducing women that she’s getting exasperated! Seduction is a two-way process, so perk up, look around and notice how the ladies are trying to woo you.
Rely on music to finish the job for you. Buy a good CD and put it on the next time she’s in your apartment. Ask her for a “sound tripping” date and prepare a romantic dinner for her. Dress up and do some sexy dancing in your living room. Music will set the mood, will make her feel special and will lower her inhibitions.
Seducing women means seducing her senses, and this includes her sense of smell. Never approach a woman while you’re sweaty and stinky. Smell activates certain states of mind that get her in the mood for love making. Put on a fragrant aftershave or light some scented candles. Lavender scents, in particular, relax women.
Prepare finger foods and get her to feed you. Or prepare dips to go with chips and lick the dripping sauce off each other’s fingers. Moving your lips will shift her focus from your eyes to your lips, which has a seductive effect on a woman. Women have playful and active imaginations and playing with your lips on your part will have her start fantasizing about kissing.
Seducing women also requires a lot of privacy, safety and scented oils. Ask if you can give her a massage, then start with her hands. Always be tuned into her mood and comfort level, and stop when you sense a slight discomfort. If you play your cards right and take your time, she won’t be able to resist a relaxing massage from someone who cares.
