Six Signs She Wants To Break Up
Sep 1st, 2008 by Marc Sandford
Before a storm hits, disaster strikes, or something that’s just plain bad happens, there will always be signs of warning. It’s very common to hear people say: “why didn’t we listen to the warning signs”. This is true of storms, political events, bridge collapses, and of couples breaking up.
A word of warning. If you’re a paranoid person, forget that you ever saw this article. Note that the points made here address changes in your partners behavior that weren’t there in the past. Likewise, the more signs that apply to your relationship the more likely a breakup is about to happen.
1.) Is your partner habitually threatening to break up if you fail to meet her conditions? When she is in this mind set it means that she’s been premeditating on this for some time now. If a positive change in the relationship doesn’t happen soon, a break up is in the cards.
Constant fighting and bickering over trivial things means that you don’t want to face up to the real reason for your discontent. Is fear of a separation the only thing that holds you together? Or is it a different matter that’s got to be faced immediately?
2.) Do you get the feeling that your partner is attempting to avoid contact with you? This type of conduct can be expressed in many ways but it all equates to her being elsewhere and inaccessible. The partner that’s all but disappeared is cause for real concern.
This is an incredibly painful and demeaning situation to be caught in. She has virtually pushed you away and out of her life. Although you haven’t officially broken up, you’re basically there already.
3.) Are you finding that your very existence displeases her? Have her standards become impossible and she’s always criticizing you about something? This means that she’s building up a case to leave you and give you the blame for the breakup because you’re not good enough.
4.) Does your girlfriend come across as distracted, distant, somewhere else? Perhaps she’s apathetic and doesn’t add much if at all to the conversation. This remote behavior is very common but when considered in addition to other signs of a breakup, it has significance.
5.) Is your partner starting to become unusually secretive? Not saying where she’s going or quickly ending phone calls when you go into the same room? This sort of behavior is odd and you’ve got to ask yourself why?
6.) Has she begun to talk to you in a very contemptuous way? This is true evidence that her perception of you has undergone a major shift. It’s important that you repair this problem soon or risk a break up in the near future.
Again, you must exercise some caution here. Use these tips if you already have a bad feeling about where your relationship is going. People have their quirks of behavior. Keep in mind that we’re talking about a behavior change that isn’t normal for her.
