The “Secret” to Getting the Dates of Your Dreams
May 31st, 2009 by Charles F-Cuninghame
Would you be interested in learning how to bag dates with bootylicious singles and get tons of love action?
I’m sure your answer is yes. After all, that’s why you’re reading this article. Well here’s how: act now. OK, I know you were waiting for something more profound. But hey, often it’s the obvious things ? but the ones that you’re not doing - that can make the biggest difference. Let me explain…
You can daydream about dating that sexy stranger. You can bitch and moan about the man man/woman drought. You can obsess about past relationships and what you might have done to make them work. Sadly none of this will help you bag your soul mate.
If you want a fresh relationship then you have to quit talking, thinking and moaning, and get out there and do something about it! No excuses.
Start by hanging out where you’re sure to meet some singles: pubs, nightclubs, barbecues, parties, sports clubs, adult education classes, salsa lessons… whatever takes your fancy.
If you see someone you like you need to be bold. Walk up and introduce yourself. Yeah, I know it’s tough. But don’t procrastinate. Just do it. If you talk yourself out of it you’ll only regret it later. A chance has been lost.
That’s the reason your magical dating secret is ACTION! Do not put your introduction off for later. ACT NOW.
At first it’s hard, but with practice you’ll be able to approach people without hesitation. Examine your fears. Are they realistic? Only a bone fide sadist is going to humiliate you in public. Most people are flattered by some attention, so go for it! If they’re not interested, not to worry, on to the next one.
Remember, relationships don’t just happen. You have to take action.
