Think Your Spouse Could Be Cheating? How To Find Out For Sure!
Nov 25th, 2008 by Grant Dougan
If you suspect that your spouse is being less-than-faithful to you, you are no doubt experiencing a lot of stress. No matter why you suspect them, you have a right to know what is going on. Peroiod. There is an easy way to find out if your husband or wife has been cheating.
This “detective work” involves a few easy to follow steps. Let’s go over them step by step to be sure you can uncover the answers you are hoping to find.
The First Step
First of all, you’ll need ten to fifteen minutes alone with your spouse’s cellphone. Find a time when you are sure of having it to yourself, so you won’t be caught in the act.
Good times are when your spouse steps into the shower or has just headed out to run an errand. This way, you’ll be alone for long enough to do this first crucial step.
Once it’s just you and their phone, get a pen and a piece of paper.
Locate their call history on the phone and write down all of the outgoing and incoming call numbers. If you see numbers you know, leave them out. Be certain to write down any number you don’t recognize, however.
Once this is done, put away the cell phone and walk over to your computer.
The Second Step
Now you have a way to look into whose numbers these are on your spouse’s phone.
You can find out full details on someone just by having their phone number. A reverse phone look up will give you the name,full address, location details and background information of the owner of the phone.
These days over half of phone numbers are either cell phones or unlisted. What this means is that the majority of phone numbers aren’t listed in any phonebook.
Fortunately, there are businesses that fork over good money to have access to full records to cell phones and numbers that aren’t in the phonebook. They then build databases that anyone can use.
While these databases are not free to access, the cost is very low. If you have reason to suspect that your spouse has been cheating, the cost is a small price to pay to find out the truth.
If you have several mystery numbers to investigate, your best bet would be to use a site that charges a one time fee for unlimited use of their database. This way, you can use the company’s search services any time you need to. You will almost certainly have more than one number to look up, and certainly do not want to pay each and every time you have a new number to look up.
After this article, there is a link to a site where you can try a sample search free of charge and see how well these searches perform. You’ll be amazed by the information a simple phone number can net you.
Run a search on each unidentified phone number in your spouse’s call history. Write down the results of these searches.
The Last Step
Your final job is to look at the names on your sheet of paper. Is there anything that looks out of the ordinary? Many times people will suspect that their partner is seeing a certain person - do you see any name that falls into that category?
In any case, you do now have the information you need to know just who your spouse has been talking to. This can be valuable in trying to find if there has been any untoward behavior.
This way of checking up on your spouse is simple and gives you at least some information to go on if you suspect that your spouse has been unfaithful to you.
