The significance of flirting has greatly increased in the past 2 decades. If you go back in history, you can quickly see the evolution of flirting why it plays an integral part in today’s society.
By the 1980’s everything changed. Not only was it 100 percent the responsibility of an individual to find relationships, but it became crucial that men know how to flirt with women.
Around the 80’s, it became clear that if you wanted to be successful with women you needed to have flirting skills. By the 20th century, flirting had become the determining factor in a man’s success with women. Now-a-days, if you want to be successful with women, you must be able to flirt in your texting, text messages, conversations and body language.
First, before we jump into the flirting tips, let me point out that if you are having poor success with women it doesn’t have to be that way - it’s just a lack of knowledge. Learning and applying the right flirting tips will have a huge impact on what women you attract into your life. I’ve seen it happen hundreds of times.
Flirting is the first step in any relationship or interaction with a woman, and it cannot be skipped. In fact, it’s the most important step! It’s what starts the fire and creates the attraction. It is the step that defines a man’s success with women. So let’s jump into the top 5 flirting tips for men:
Flirting Tips #1 - Have Physical Connection
Physical interaction has a huge impact on a woman’s internal mechanics. She is very aware of touch and if it’s done in a non-threatening way she will be more drawn to you.
Once you have initiated the touch you need to be aware if she touches you back. If she does, that’s a strong indicator that she feels safe around you and that you can keep progressing the interaction. If she doesn’t, consider backing off.
Flirting Tips #2 - Leave on a high - get her laughing
Your ending is the most important part in a conversation. It’s like when you take clay and mold it, but the only thing that really makes a long-term impact is what that clay ends off hardening into.
For example, if you are planning on meeting up, don’t end off saying, “ya we will see you then, bye.” You want to end off with her laughing. So instead, say something like, “yeah just try not to embarrass me.” or “Don’t forget to paint your toe nails.” or “This is where you say you can’t wait to see me and hope you can keep your hands to yourself.”
Flirting Tips #3 - Qualify, Qualify, Qualify
Qualifying is not easy for men. Men seemed to be affected by a good looking woman and then go into this mood of wanting to please her in any way they can. They basically sell themselves until they present a deal that costs the woman nothing. If it costs the woman nothing to have you or lose you, then you can imagine what kind of value that gives her. Don’t lose your value - that’s what is making her want you. The best way to maintain your value is by qualifying.
You can do this by asking question like, “that’s a cool necklace did you get it traveling?” To keep it on the more flirty side you can do what is called roll reversal, “So are you going to ask me out or what?” or “You didn’t just tell me you liked hiking to get me to like you, did you?” Whatever you do, realize that you have no idea of what that good looking girl has to offer, so don’t treat her like she’s a queen, it doesn’t make sense.
Flirting Tips #4 - Props
Believe it or not, women want to flirt with men but have a hard time doing it. Having a prop makes it so much easier and inviting for them to come up to you. It also gives you something to talk about to break the ice.
You could use a bandanna that hangs out of your pocket or a hat that stands out, a shirt that says something funny, etc. Then if a girl asks about your bandanna you can say, “I don’t think you can handle it.” Then you can go into a made up story or just say “it’s to match my shoes what do you think?”
Flirting Tips #5 - Flirt through texting
Being successful with women is becoming easier and easier for men. Why? Because communication through text messaging, emails, and SMS text messages has became such an integral part in everyday communication. This is a gold mine for men. It gives you time to compose the right message (which also improves your real world flirting). You can also interact with more than one woman at once to increase your chances and build your confidence. Most importantly, texting and text messages cut out all the attraction triggers that often times hurt your chances, such as clothes, smile, breath, hair, etc. All you’re left with are words and timing.
Once you get the right words with the right timing, you can expect to have a ton of success with women. And since most men fail at flirting in texting, you will stand out above the rest and you’ll see a lot of women responding desirably to you.
