What The Pickup Artist on VH1 Wont Tell You About Fashion 2
Oct 3rd, 2008 by Vin DiCarlo
(continued from part 1)
I have tried peacocking myself when I heard that other guys were doing it. I did this maybe a couple times, just to see if it worked.
When I went out I felt ridiculous and was totally incongruent with my personality.
Women pay attention to fashion and like a well-dressed man, as we all know.
I noticed that it was in my workout clothes or something really basic - like jeans and a tanktop that some of my best pickups occurred.
At the same time, I’d see muscled-up guys wearing revealing spandex, or super-tight shirts at the club, and women definitely did not respond well to this.
This got me thinking…maybe it’s not how much the clothes cost, or how flashy they are…
Maybe there’s something else going on.
There are two things going on. This two things must be manage or balance.
The first thing is, never seek approval from women. You are totally toast, if a woman can tell you that you are trying to impress her or make her like you.
So if you look like you got dressed with the intention of getting women’s attention, they’ll see you coming a mile a way and put up their defenses.
You DON’T WANT to look like a pick up artist.
To dress modestly and not put too much thought into it avails much.
However, you need to present yourself in the best way you can and not to look sloppy.
This comes back to self-expression.
You already have a sense of what kind of guy you are, what your “scene” is, what you think is cool.
Never change that.
Instead, cultivate it, with these simple tweaks.
Wear colors that suites to your skin tone and hair color. This isn’t rocket science. You can look online or go to n upscale men’s clothing store, and ask someone about this.
Next is to make sure that your clothes are clean, wrinkle free and reasonably updated. A woman will not worry about bringing you around her friends.
Lastly, make sure your clothes fit well, meaning, they ACCENTUATE YOUR MASCULINE PHYSIQUE.
Wear shirts that narrow your waist, and square your shoulders.
Have your legs look long and thin by wearing pants.
Wear shoes that make your feet look big and well-formed.
Groom yourself - nose, neck, and ear hairs. Get a decent haircut. Shave, or don’t, but figure out what looks best and take it all the way.
One other thing…
Accessories should hang off you loosely, and have the look of a small decoration that says, “yeah, I can fuck.”
I don’t want to talk too much because that’s a whole other topic because that’s a whole other topic. Just use your intuition with this one.
